Story

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The morning of my wedding to Stacey was one for the books—a mix of nervous excitement and deep gratitude. She’s the kind of person who lights up a room effortlessly, and knowing she chose me felt like winning the jackpot. Our wedding was beautiful, filled with laughter, family, and the kind of joy that feels like it could power you for years.

But before I could walk into that bright future, there was a chapter I had to close. That same morning, I stood over a small firepit, holding the last photos of Tara. She was a girl from my past who had dumped me unceremoniously, leaving me to sift through my own insecurities. Looking back, I think she did me a favor. Letting those photos burn felt like a release, like saying, "Thank you for the lesson, but I’m done carrying this." Watching the smoke drift upward, I felt lighter. Stacey deserved all of me, and I was more than ready to step into our new life together.

Funny thing is, those tough moments taught me resilience. I’d been through heartbreak, but I’d also discovered simple joys. I’d escape into *Dig Dug*, my favorite computer game, digging tunnels and smashing boulders. Life can be a lot like that game—sometimes you just have to keep digging to find something worthwhile. And I did.

I found Stacey.

Our wedding wasn’t just a celebration of love—it was a reminder of how far I’d come. From sitting on a bench with my parents, soaking in their quiet wisdom, to random moments like Parker joking, “I can’t even smell your face!” Life has been this patchwork of big milestones and small moments that remind me how good it is.

Even my career as a DOP has been a source of pride. It’s not just about the title—it’s about knowing I built something meaningful, step by step, boulder by boulder, just like in the game. And now, with Stacey by my side, it feels like there’s no limit to what we can build together.

Looking back, it’s clear: Every drift, every turn, every laugh, and every heartbreak led to this moment. Life has a way of surprising you with just how good it can get when you keep moving forward.

Drift onward, always.